It's been months since I went anywhere without my daughter. Getting things done with a toddler is not as easy as I imagined. I thought toddlers would be easier than babies but no, they present a new set of challenges. Babies don't have opinions. Babies do not throw tantrums or refuse to wear their coats. Babies don't hide their shoes or attempt to run in front of moving cars. They don't refuse to sit in their strollers or hit the dog on the nose when they get sick of playing tug-of-war. You will never find yourself negotiating with a baby or pleading for two more minutes of good behavior so you can check out at the grocery store.
Every activity revolves around my daughter. All my social interactions happen at her classes, play dates, groups and doctor's appointments. I can't go to any restaurant or cafe that doesn't have some type of play area. I spend most of my time with my family in our apartment. Some days I would like to go places but her nap time is too early or late so we don't go. When I get time off it's usually late in the evening. By that time there isn't much I can do besides read, watch tv or surf the Internet. Those things are fun but they aren't fulfilling.
Minus child and stroller, my baby bag lighter by ten pounds I got more accomplished in one hour than I normally would in three. Potsdamer Platz in the evening is great. It has a big city vibe. The weather was cool and the pavement was wet from resent rain but it was still mild enough to feel like Spring. Without my husband or child to define me, I was just another woman running errands. It felt really, really good to be in the city alone. I started to kindle a little spark of love for Berlin. It didn't hurt that it was the first time I went downtown without needing the navi or making any wrong turns. :)